The mind is a battle field between truth and lies, good and evil. Satan is constantly trying to tempt, distract or attack us and it starts in the mind. The mind interprets based on a primary emotion or fear that often finds its root in an early experience. While it may be interesting to pinpoint the experience that sprouted all this (facing it, forgiving and begin healing), what's more important is knowing the root emotion. In the case above, the emotion is fear of conditional acceptance. When you can pinpoint the primary fear or emotion, you hold it up to the flawless Word of God and speak truth.
To believe anything counter to God's Word is to believe a lie and fall victim to Satan's attack.
- He chose me in Christ before the foundation of the world that I should be holy and blameless before Him. (Ephesians 1:4)
- See what kind of love the Father has given to me, that I should be called a child of God; and so I am. (1 John 3:1a)
- I can go to Jesus and He will never reject me. (John 6:37)
What emotional language does your brain interpret? Spend time identifying the root emotion or fear and then search God's Word for the truth of the matter. I love these truth statements from Neil Anderson.